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I wanna have the same last dream again

What am I looking for? I’m looking for a friend with benefits, but NOT the FWB most people think of. I want, first and foremost, a friend. The sort of FWB arrangement I am looking for involves actual friendship 100% of the time and sex somewhere between 50% and 90% of the time. For example, let’s go watch a football game, grab a bite to eat, then head back to your place and get it on.

Now that I’ve explained what I am looking for, let me be as clear as possible on a few key points. First, I’m engaged and my ball-and-chain cannot know about the side activities I have with my chosen friend. I would prefer someone that is comfortable meeting (and occasionally hanging out with) a guy who has no idea you’re banging his woman. Of course, if you aren't comfortable with that (who can blame you?), arrangements can be made. Second, make no mistake, I am a BBW. That being said, I have dropped 25 pounds over the last three months and I will be dropping a whole lot more. Third, I have to picky. I know that seems odd to hear from a bbw, but it is just as much for your benefit as my own. I don't want to waste your time and you don't want your time wasted.

On to a few notes I have for any guy thinking he might like to try for this
1) If I want a dick pick, I’ll ask. Generally I like to be surprised rather than knowing exactly what to expect. I think the mystery adds a little spice, don't you?

2) No, I’m not 420 friendly, sorry - job thing.

3) I have a variety of interests and preference would go to someone who has variety as well.

4) I’m 24 years old and I will only consider men between the ages of 21 and 34. It's not that I don't like anyone older or younger, it's that I have trouble being mature enough for anyone older and I would like a FWB that can legally drink lol

5) I may well be a BBW, but I have a type just like everyone else – if you don’t fit my type, don’t be an a-hole about it just like I won't be a bitch about it if I don't fit your type, deal?

6) I (and several of my family member) work for the state in various departments which include (but are not limited to) corrections and cyber security. If you’re some perv or violent offender, don’t bother trying to fuck with me, because I will find out. Yes, this has happened to me before, so I have to include it.

7) Remember, this is about friendship and not just sex. If you are only interested in the sex part, fine, but be honest with me about it. Who knows, maybe you’ll catch me on a day where I just need laid and I don’t give a damn...which happens surprisingly often.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageGerman
BuildBBW/BHM
Height157 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBlonde
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureChest
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
Health ConditionNo special condition
Bra size40 / 90
Cup sizeDD
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusIn a relationship
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationThere is no noise
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyOther
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual incomeup to $25,000

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit
My perfect matchGuys who can keep my attention are a major turn-on. I have mild ADHD, so my attention can be hard to keep. I do prefer men who are more slender/toned/athletic, but I"m a realist and know that as a bbw my choice on those is highly restricted. On a friend-type note, I enjoy deep conversation. I don't care much for small talk. I'd rather talk about the evolution of the universe, geophysics, paleontology, or astronomy.
Our first dateA good conversation, some sincere laughs, and a good time!

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A few times a month
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Night clubs, Strip clubs, Raves, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isNot my thing
Sex toys:Clitoral stimulator, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person