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Dom seeking Sub for fun times

Assertive and caring man with high expectations. Ideally looking for an independent woman who knows who she is, what she wants, and desires to grow in both her submissiveness and sexuality. Am told that I am handsome, intelligent, fun-loving, have a wicked sense of humor, and a good listener.

I am married to a wonderful woman, in an open marriage where we both play and have sex with one another, other couples and independently with partners.

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Swinging Preferences

Swinging Level:Full Swap Couple, Totally Open
Seeking:Full Swap Couple, Totally Open, Bisexual Couple, Single Female
Travel:within 50 miles
Entertain at home:Sometimes
Enjoy attending:Swinger clubs, Swinger vacation resorts, Swinger parties, Nude beaches

CBT Preferences

I prefer:Soft and light, Depends on my partner, Hard and rough, Make me cry
Things I enjoy:Squeezing, Pinching, Weights/Parachutes, Stretching, Stroking
Toys I like to use:Ball crusher, Ball stretcher, Parachute, Humbler, Testicle cuffs
Orgasm during play:Sometimes

Affair Preferences

Does your partner know?Yes

Strapon Preferences

Do you enjoy giving or receiving the strapon?Both
How much Strapon can you handle?Long and Thin, Average Sized, Short and Thin, Soft and Slow

Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:Beach and parking lots. Anywhere where the risk is acceptable and the pleasure exciting.
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:On a dark street, up against a building, standing up with people passing by.

Facesitting Preferences

What kind of facesitting do you like?Full Weight
Being bound while red:Yes
Do you look at facesitting as a form of punishment?Sometimes

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildAverage
Height188 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorSalt and pepper
Hair LengthNeck length
Facial HairNone
Best featureSmile
Body ArtStrategically placed tattoo
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusMarried
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Doctorate
SpecialtyAdministrative / Management
Employment StatusPart-time
Job TitleWoman Pleaser

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchA strong independent woman who is seen as a leader in the community, but prefers to be submissive at other times, including in the bedroom. She desires to grow in her submissiveness, honing her skills, and learning new skills. She wants a strong man to take control of her, but desires the man who is thoughtful, caring and seeks to grow with her.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
My role isSwitch
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelExpert
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Chastity devices, CBT (cock & ball torture), Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Depilation / shaving, Electro torture, Femdom, Food play, Foot / shoe worship, Genital torture, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Kidnapping, Physical humiliation, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Verbal humiliation, Voyeurism, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosYes, I love the camera
My most pleasurable encounter wasThere are so many. . .

Fetishes

FetishesCuckolding, Exhibitionism, Feathers, High Heels, Lace / Lingerie, Panty, Pantyhose / Stockings, Tickling, ring, Tongue Fetish, Voyeurism

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A couple times a week
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Group sex with swapping
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Fetish clubs, Swapping parties, Dungeon clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Adult book stores, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isIt's how I get aroused
Anal sex isI love it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Office supplies, Strap-ons
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":Children, scat, needles and blood.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyOpen to exploring everything and anything with the right partner.
Fantasy locationAirplane, Train, Moving car, At a park, Dark alley, Bleachers of a stadium, Kitchen, Elevator, Hotel/motel, Swimming pool, Hot tub, Movie theatre, Parents house, Dressing room, On the beach, My office, In a church, Library, In a taxi cab, Public bathroom, Restaurant
Fantasy sex partner:An oversexed woman who desires to submit to a caring but strict Dom, who is willing to experiment and try new things. OR an oversexed woman who desires to dominate a man who enjoys experimenting and trying new things *S*

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer both roles
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:I'm always in the mood
I like to wear:Yes. Depends on the situation and scene.
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position, Other
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Birch, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse, Other
Response:Embarrassment / Obedience
Pain level:Heavy Marks

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Depends on my mood
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
I like to wear:Casual straight wear, Lingerie and stockings, Leather, Other
Ideal session:Whatever she desires, whatever turns her on, serving her as she desires.

Foot Fetish Preferences

My fetish role:Sub - Sucking toes & feet
Foot size:X-Large > 11